Blogtember: What would I Relive?

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Hello Friends! I am linking up with Jenni from Story of my Life for { Blogtember }Its a daily blog challenge starting Tuesday Sept 3 with weekends off! The full list of topics is below but today/yesterday we are talking about:

Tuesday, September 17: A memory you would love to relive.

This was a hard one to answer.  I'm sure many people might have a happy memory... but I would pick something much much more meaningful. First, if I could relive it does it mean I could change it? If that was the case, the list would be so long. I would want to talk to my uncle before he passed away, I would want to tell my grandfather one more time how much I loved him and how much he changed my life. But I think most of all I would go back to the memory night before my brother died. I would totally change it one way or another.  He was 24 and died drinking and driving on a 4-wheeler. I would change the conversation and remind him not to be so dangerous. I would also let him know that I loved him very much and he was a wonderful person. I would have told him that I was sorry for being such a screw up that year. And the years following. I would want him to know that if he just wouldn't drink that night, so many lives wouldn't have been so drastically changed forever. I would want relive those moments and maybe just maybe save him.. save a a friendship. I would go with him and be the adult who took the keys.. who didn't leave him alone to race around on a machine that would take his life. And if I couldn't change it, I would be there to hold his hand as he left this world and entered the next. And I would tell him that I one day I'll see him again.. and in the meantime come see me in my dreams. I would relive that time.. and I would either change it or say all the things that no one got to say. I would say goodbye. 

This is terribly hard to write tonight..I done blogging until tomorrow. 


K Jaggers

Tuesday, Sept. 3: Describe where or what you come from. The people, the places, and/or the factors that make up who you are.
Wednesday, September 4: If you could take three months off from your current life and do anything in the world, what would you do? (bonus points for fun photos from Pinterest, but don't forget to cite the source!)
Thursday, September 5: Pass on some useful advice or information you learned and always remembered. 
Friday, September 6: A story about a time you were very afraid.
Monday, September 9: Take this short personality test and respond to your results. (at the end, find the detailed profile of your personality account - click "click to view" under "You" and "self awareness and personal growth." You can even google your type and find more info on it!)
Tuesday, September 10: Describe a distinct moment when your life took a turn.
Wednesday, September 11: Share links to your favorite online shops, preferably with a few photos of your favorite items in each shop.
Thursday, September 12: Discuss ways that blogging or social media has changed you.
Friday, September 13: A self portrait
Monday, September 16: Write a public love letter to someone in your life. (It doesn't necessarily need to be romantic.)
Tuesday, September 17: A memory you would love to relive.
Wednesday, September 18: Only photos
Thursday, September 19: Creative writing day: write a (very short) fictional story that starts with this sentence: "To say I was dreading the dinner party would be the understatement of the century."
The story does not necessarily need to have a conclusion - you can leave your readers wishing for more!
Friday, September 20: React to this term: comfort. 
Monday, September 23: A "life lately" post. What you're up to, how you're feeling, how you're doing on your goals, etc. Bonus points for great photos!
Tuesday, September 24: Review a book, place, or product.
Wednesday, September 25: Write about a time you screwed up - a mistake you made. 
Thursday, September 26: Go to a coffee shop. Order a favorite drink. Write about what makes you happy and what makes you sad. Or write about anything you'd like! Bonus points for including a photo from the coffee shop. (I recommend downloadingOmmwriter and bringing headphones along!) *if you can't make it to a coffee shop, at least leave your usual space and write someplace new.
Friday, September 27: An anonymous letter to your Facebook friends. Be as snarky as you'd like. (but don't include people's real names.) 
Monday, September 30: Share a photo of something old. Maybe something that has personal history for you, that was passed down to you, and that has special meaning to you. Tell us about it and why it's special.about:

2 comments on "Blogtember: What would I Relive? "
  1. You have no idea how you are holding on to him, this is what matters the most, to never forget a loved one for that is what keeps them alive in our hearts. Letting go of the what ifs and holding them in our heart as we move forward in our your life, live it with no regrets, just keep moving forward for you living and moving forward is what keeps them all alive...take care and live that wonderful life of yours, your way!! Always

    1. I agree Marianne! Hang in there Kisha, he knows you love him and I am sure you are a wonderful sister, then and now! Big hugs to you!!


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